Ya\u015famda mutlu olmak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu, belki de hepimizin en temel iste\u011fi.
\u201cNe kadar mutluyuz?\u201d sorusu hepimizin merak\u0131, derdi, tasas\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Peki, g\u00fczel insanlar, ger\u00e7ekten ne kadar mutluyuz?
Ondan da \u00f6tesi, mutluluktan kast\u0131m\u0131z ne?
Onu nas\u0131l tan\u0131ml\u0131yoruz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir \u00f6nceki anketimize bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, bir iki cevap d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda herkesin mutsuz oldu\u011funa dair yan\u0131tlar g\u00f6rd\u00fcm. Belki baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z mutsuzlu\u011funu abartt\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc; baz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z ise ger\u00e7ekten, fark edemeyecek kadar mutsuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ama ben bu soruya biraz daha \u0131l\u0131ml\u0131 yakla\u015fmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. O soruyu g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde, hangimiz g\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz anlar\u0131, g\u00fcnleri hat\u0131rlad\u0131?
Bence \u00e7ok az\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131za odakl\u0131y\u0131z.
\u201c\u015eu g\u00fcn \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fcyd\u00fc\u201d, \u201c\u015eu an \u00e7ok ac\u0131d\u0131 i\u00e7im\u201d diyebiliyoruz ve c\u00fcmleleri \u201cmutsuzum\u201d diyerek bitiriyoruz.
Ama hangimiz ger\u00e7ekten neyin bizi mutlu etti\u011fini biliyor? Nelerin, kimlerin bize iyi geldi\u011fi ne kadar net?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bana kal\u0131rsa mutlulu\u011fu yanl\u0131\u015f tan\u0131ml\u0131yoruz ve beklentilerimizi \u00e7ok y\u00fckseltiyoruz.
Hi\u00e7, \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrken geni\u015f \u00e7apl\u0131 bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda, o aral\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7inde mutlu oldu\u011funuzu fark etti\u011finiz oldu mu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bence bunun ad\u0131 huzur.
Ve huzur, h\u00fczn\u00fc de i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Huzurlu hissedip hayat\u0131 her \u015feyiyle kabullendi\u011finizde \u2014 h\u00fczn\u00fcn ya\u015famas\u0131na izin verdi\u011finizde \u2014 asl\u0131nda mutlu olabiliyorsunuz.
En k\u00f6t\u00fc \u015fey hissizliktir. Kendinize y\u00f6n verememektir.
E\u011fer hissedemiyorsan\u0131z, ac\u0131y\u0131 nas\u0131l bileceksiniz? Ya da onun z\u0131dd\u0131n\u0131?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu y\u00fczden ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z her \u015feyin size kalan, sizi b\u00fcy\u00fcten par\u00e7alar oldu\u011funu bilmelisiniz.
Ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve hissettiklerinizi, hayat\u0131n\u0131za anlam katt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in sevmeli ve sahiplenmelisiniz.
Ancak o zaman ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n dengesini bulabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat, ya\u015fam; her haliyle g\u00fczel.
K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck olmayan ama bizim k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015feylerin de bizi mutlu etmesine izin vermeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve soruyorum:
Kim sava\u015ft\u0131?
Ne kadar sava\u015ft\u0131?
K\u00f6t\u00fc hissetti\u011finde, haz alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 o anda\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sadece isteyelim.
Mutluluk, biz isteyince bizim olur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
G\u00fcne\u015fin do\u011fu\u015funa \u015f\u00fckretmek mesela\u2026
H\u00fcz\u00fcnle y\u00fcr\u00fcrken bir ku\u015fun bize e\u015flik etti\u011fini fark etmek\u2026
Ya\u015fl\u0131 bir amcaya \u201cNas\u0131ls\u0131n?\u201d demek\u2026
Tan\u0131mad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcld\u00fcrmek, minik bir hediyeyle sevindirmek\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
R\u00fczg\u00e2r\u0131 hissetmek, ya\u011fmurda \u0131slanmak\u2026
Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nefes ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmek\u2026
Ve her \u015feyden \u00f6nemlisi, kalbini hissetmek\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Emin olun, bunlar mutlulu\u011funuza katman katman merdiven dikecek.
\u0130yi hissetmenizi sa\u011flayacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Girmedi\u011finiz kap\u0131lar\u0131 aralay\u0131n.
Bilmedi\u011finiz yollara meyledin.
Yeni bir \u201csiz\u201d tan\u0131y\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mutlulu\u011fa ko\u015fmay\u0131n; ko\u015famazs\u0131n\u0131z zaten.
B\u0131rak\u0131n, izin verin\u2026
O size gelsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sevgiyle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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