{"id":6206,"date":"2024-06-21T07:37:50","date_gmt":"2024-06-21T07:37:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hulyalkus.com.tr\/bozguna-ugratilmis-hikayeler\/"},"modified":"2025-06-28T08:14:01","modified_gmt":"2025-06-28T08:14:01","slug":"bozguna-ugratilmis-hikayeler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hulyalkus.com.tr\/tr\/bozguna-ugratilmis-hikayeler\/","title":{"rendered":"Bozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeler diyeyim o zaman<br>Bozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeler..<br>Bir hayli fazla g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum bu t\u00fcr hikayeleri hem de bozguna u\u011frat\u0131l\u0131p ger\u00e7ekle\u015fme ihtimalleri yok edilip dile getirildiklerinden sonra.<br>Biliyor musunuz sevgili okurlar asl\u0131nda buradan \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fiir \u00e7\u0131kar ama derdim art\u0131k bozguna u\u011fram\u0131\u015f hikayelerin \u015fiirini yazmak ya da ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin, reel d\u00fcnyan\u0131n \u00f6tesinde hayallerde bar\u0131nan durumlar\u0131 imgelemek de\u011fil. Ben art\u0131k \u00f6zg\u00fcrce ve net\u00e7e konu\u015fmak istiyorum. \u015eiirlerimi ise ger\u00e7eklere sakl\u0131yorum. \u0130\u00e7inde yaln\u0131zca ger\u00e7ekli\u011fin bar\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 harika c\u00fcmleler kurmak istiyorum. Ukdesi kalm\u0131\u015f duygular\u0131n ezikli\u011fiyle kaybolmu\u015f ruhlar\u0131n esintisinden bahsetmek, \u00f6yle ruhlar\u0131 anmak de\u011fil, yeniden a\u00e7an \u00e7i\u00e7eklerden bahsetmek istiyorum mesela , do\u011fan g\u00fcne\u015ften , g\u00fclen y\u00fczlerden, haktan hukuktan, reel bir ya\u015famdan bahsetmek istiyorum.<br>Bozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeleri ise \u015fiirlerimde misafir etmiyorum.<br>E karar b\u00f6yle olunca burdan bir muhabbet kurmak istedim sizlerle ve biz insanlar\u0131n bu ruh halini birlikte \u00e7\u00f6zmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m istedim.<br>\u015eiirsel konu\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131m \u00f6ncelikle , olabildi\u011fince bunu yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131m diyeyim ya da :))<br>Neyse gelelim konuya ;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0130nsano\u011flu i\u00e7inde kalan ukdesinin kurban\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O y\u00fczden benden size bir tavsiye; ukdelerinize kulak asmay\u0131n. E\u011fer onlar\u0131 ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirme ihtimalini kaybettiyseniz.<br>Ha \u00f6yle hayali imgeli hallere de girmeyin l\u00fctfen, yok i\u015fte imkans\u0131z bir \u015fey yok,<br>\u015eu ukdemi \u015furda yapay\u0131m, i\u00e7imde kalan duyguyu \u015furda ya\u015fayay\u0131m .. a \u015funu \u015fu ya\u015f\u0131mda yapamad\u0131m \u015fimdi yapay\u0131m \u2026<br>Yok.. olmaz! , ge\u00e7ti evet ge\u00e7ti gitti art\u0131k.<br>Y\u00fczle\u015fin!<br>Size hayatta ilerlemenin ve dik kalabilmenin bildi\u011fim en b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyeyim mi!<br>Y\u00fczle\u015fmek! ve kabullenmek!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bir kere \u00f6nce kendinizi sevin , kendi kararlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131.<br>Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z eylemleri verdi\u011finiz kararlar\u0131 sahiplenin, kabul edin.<br>\u0130yi de olsa k\u00f6t\u00fc de olsa bu benim ya deyin, yapt\u0131m deyin.<br>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat bu , ve biz insano\u011flu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kimi zaman kaybederiz, kimi zaman kazan\u0131r , kimi zaman yan\u0131l\u0131r\u0131z, kimi zaman hakl\u0131y\u0131zd\u0131r.<br>Do\u011fru yapar\u0131z bazen, bazen yanl\u0131\u015f.<br>\u00dcz\u00fcl\u00fcr\u00fcz, a\u011flar\u0131z, g\u00fcleriz, seviniriz.<br>Hepsi biziz.<br>O y\u00fczden d\u00f6n\u00fcp d\u00f6n\u00fcp ge\u00e7mi\u015ften hikayeler \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za.<br>Bu yol devam ediyor.<br>Tren ilerliyor.<br>O durak ge\u00e7ti.<br>Ge\u00e7ti.<br>Ufka bak\u0131n yaln\u0131zca.<br>D\u00fcne ho\u015f\u00e7akal demeyi yar\u0131na merhaba demeyi adet edinin.<br>Sevgiyle kal\u0131n. \ud83e\udd0d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeler diyeyim o zamanBozguna u\u011frat\u0131lm\u0131\u015f hikayeler..Bir hayli fazla g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum bu t\u00fcr hikayeleri hem de bozguna u\u011frat\u0131l\u0131p ger\u00e7ekle\u015fme ihtimalleri 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